“If electricity comes from electrons,Does morality comes from morons?”
Saw this one liner in a tiny box given in The Times of India today. The entire page is dedicated to the morality and so-called cultural custodians. The journos did a good job in capturing a photo of a T-print of the western term ‘The Gypsy River Broadband’, proudly displayed by one among the moral brigade. The whole issue, doing the rounds in all media houses for the last couple of days, on the ‘Mangalore Pub’ incident. For all those, who’re not keeping a track on the news and views, couple of days back, in one of the pubs in Mangalore, the so-called moral policemen bumped in, harassed the women and threw them out of the pub. Mangalore, being in the vicinity of the Silicon Valley, made a definite stir in Bangalore and so the Govt.bodies, the white-collared lots, and the average Kannadiga & Non reacting on the same. What I got to hear later from Times Now is, just because the media highlighted the incident, the police force in general and the political circuit began to react (in terms of airing their voices); otherwise it would have probably remained unheard about like many other incidents happening in India and no one really would ever voice their concerns. The best things about these incidents is, you’d get to hear your politicians coming out and airing their voices; they’d surprise you with their articulation in condemning such actions (barbaric, undemocratic, ‘talibanization’, some of them really fancy and jazzy…only to find a place in the headlines of the newspaper next day. And most importantly, the pub hopper in me could not sit idle when the CM came out against pub culture. Mr.CM, for your information, Pubbing is just not an industry in Bangalore but a way of living, and people are equally religious about it like they are with cricket. Fine, we’ve agreed upon the timelines you’ve set, but let me re-iterate the fact to you that Pubbing is a synonym of a Bangalorean.
But yes! On a serious note, it’s high time these incidents need to be given a thought about and turn those into actions. We take pride in calling ourselves the largest democracy in the world, but why can’t we draw a line between our cultural discipline and human rights. I can understand the literacy ratio within the nation, a rather large population that is carried away by the rotten leadership they fall prey under. Then who’s going to bridge the gap and help the less fortunate to enlighten, help them better their thought processes and decision making.
All such incidents highlight the other Indian residing in the earth, which the majority of India hates to admit. Along with the techie and spiritual Indian, there exists a hypocrite Indian (which outnumbers the said former titles), a hypocrite male, to be very precise. He who does not want to share the same podium, sit across the same table, attain the same height together along with the only other gender. When things do not go his way, he finds it challenging and in the process, the unsocial animal within him starts ruling. He’s hypocrite because he can attend other women but can’t see his partner doing the same. He can get physical when he does want his level of sexual pleasure but don’t mind leaving the same partner half way once he’s done. When questioned, he’ll retaliate, accuse her being uninteresting but would never admit the deteriorating potentials he has. Why? Why can’t we be ourselves?? We cant we embrace the reality.
There could be variety of reasons that may come up. I associate such acts with another psychological aspect. The minds involved in brainwashing or acting as leads, most of them, belonged to the era before the 90s. With all the economic reforms and changes in the 90s and thereafter, it brought in the two genders much closer, sharing more social & unsocial spaces & moments. There’s this lot which missed out on this wonderful moment of emotions and celebrations, in fact could not avail it. There’s this burning unfulfilled desire coupled with regret, a sort of remorse of not being there, doing things that people today do. Which ultimately leads to variety of resistance to see all such spaces and moments. Had Sir Sigmund Freud been alive, he would have agreed upon this theory of mine. But this is human being, he will take his own sweet time to change perception. And a billion minds will definitely take much time. But yes, it can get faster.
How can we do that? Ma’am! Rise, Resist, Revolt. Celebrate your freedom, promote the same, and convey the message to all that it is your birth right. I know you do not find too many support for the same today, but let me assure you that the number is only increasing. Why can’t you dance your heart away when the men have been doing since time immemorial? Why can’t you let your hair down over a sip of Vodkatini after a hard day’s work? A greater message to all the political parties, I’m not voting for you. With due respects to your party objectives, wherever you resort to any undemocratic act, whenever you’re violating the human rights; be assured that I lost hope on you. It’s high time you pay the price for not listening to my voice, for not caring my views. People chairing important seats, understand your roles and react, wish we can put a TAT behind these nerds. I see some active people like Renuka Choudhary, Minister of Women and Child Development, but other policy makers also need to be on the same platform.
I have a brilliant idea! The Valentine’s Day is coming up next, I’m sure the same gang must have had their plans chalked out for making an impact. Let’s all go to the Police Commissioner’s office and ask for security, get the media and air “THE MASS DATING EVENT”. A fitting response to those who tries to enforce their lousy discipline in the name of being a custodian for culture. It will give an idea that morality comes from within and does not come with suppression.


